PLEASE HELP, i need some opinions

My opinion is that you're not bad looking, and you need to start working on being happy with yourself. Stop thinking of yourself as unattractive. If you can't love yourself for who you are, why would you expect anyone else to? Think about the kind of person you really want to be, and do what it takes to make yourself that person (and I don't mean rich and famous--I mean personality traits you want). When you're ready to marry someone, find someone who is worth being with. I can't imagine cheating on someone I cared about, and I certainly can't imagine telling him he was ugly or not good enough for me. That's shallow and petty, and doesn't need to be done. If he was haring me I'd just tell him I'm not interested in him and ask him to leave me alone. Make sure the women you're dating are the kind of women you want for a wife, not necessarily the kind who make a great one night stand or a decent girlfriend. Look beyond appearances and find someone who is a truly great person, and you won't have to worry about that kind of silliness any more.