I need some suggestions to help keep my sanity?

you have done well for your son i applaud you and your morals for wanting to do so.you can gently remind your friends that if people like you don't work they wouldn't get their money for sitting around all day.your a good parent don't let anyone tell you your not.your child sees working parents and will learn from the good example you set.their children on the other hand will not know how to get money other than to get pregnant